In a world filled with cameras capturing countless moments each day, it's only natural that not every picture will showcase our best side. So, there's no need to feel disheartened if you're camera shy. Remember, most people don't even like the sound of their own voice on tape because it differs from how we perceive it internally. Similarly, photos may not always reflect the image we see in mirrors, as the perspective of a camera differs. However, there are steps you can take to improve your experience and confidence in front of the camera.

Practice Makes Progress: Overcoming camera shyness isn't an overnight transformation, but many professionals who excel in their fields—actors, models, news anchors—have had to conquer this fear. Instead of focusing on taking "perfect" pictures, dedicate time to practicing the act of being photographed. By intentionally taking more pictures, you'll become familiar with how you react and gradually become more comfortable with the results, boosting your confidence along the way.

Embrace Confidence: Confidence plays a crucial role in capturing better pictures. While the relationship between confidence and photography may seem like a chicken-or-egg dilemma, the truth is that confident individuals tend to produce better images. When you exude self-assurance, you'll naturally feel more relaxed, preventing you from appearing tense or hunched up in photographs.

Appreciate Imperfections: As a photographer, I wholeheartedly believe in the beauty of imperfections. Just like I prefer a street with autumn leaves rather than an empty one, I often favor images with slightly blurred backgrounds or imperfect lighting, as they possess character. Nitpicking every detail in a single image can strip it of its uniqueness and charm. Embrace the notion that imperfection adds a touch of beauty to your photos, allowing you to appreciate your true self.

Communicate with Your Photographer: When it comes to the interaction between clients and photographers, especially on occasions like weddings, effective communication is key. If a particular pose or location makes you uncomfortable or if the temperature feels too extreme, don't hesitate to voice your concerns to the photographer. Remember, their ultimate goal is to capture your best moments, and they will appreciate your input. Open communication helps create a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere, enhancing both the process and the final results.

Embrace the Spotlight: Whether it's your wedding day, engagement photoshoot, or any scheduled session, seize the moment and give it your all. Channel your inner star by grooming yourself, fixing your hair, and wearing your best attire. While a photo may not capture the scent of a perfume, exuding confidence and feeling your absolute best will translate into stunning visuals. Embrace your time in front of the camera and make it your 15 minutes of fame.

I, too, understand the struggle of being camera shy, despite the irony of working as a photographer. However, based on my experiences with numerous camera-shy clients, I'm confident that these tips will not only improve your photos but also make the entire experience more enjoyable.